Hurt Love

When a heart breaks, it screams out in pain. You may not hear a plaintive cry, but the silence is deafening. Betrayal is a bitter pill. The bitterness lingers, stifling out happiness and peace.

Have you been hurt in love? Did you encounter a bad breakup? Do you feel unloved? You are not alone. Many people have experienced a nasty heartbreak. Many spend their entire life nursing the wound, and never daring to love again.

People who were betrayed are wary of relationships. They shy away from commitment and companionship. Heartbroken lovers build an impenetrable shell around themselves. They yearn for true love, but do not want to take a risk.

This negative approach leaves them desolate. The passion finds its vent in other ways. Some turn workaholic; others find solace in various forms of addiction. On the surface, they may appear normal, but deep inside they are hurt and insecure.

So, how do we mend a broken heart? How do we bounce back from a broken relationship? Is it possible to find love? The truth is that broken hearts can be mended. It depends on our attitude. If we allow the hurt to affect our psyche, the damage can be irreparable. However, if we prevent the hurt from damaging our spirit, we can bounce back.

It is important that you forgive yourself, and accept the breakup as an important milestone. Cherish the wonderful memories and move on. Life has plenty of wonderful opportunities in store. You can utilize those opportunities only if you choose to move on. Look back with fondness, not with regret

This pain is not to make you sad, remember. That's where people go on missing. This pain is just to make you more alert -- because people become alert only when the arrow goes deep into their heart and wounds them. Otherwise they don't become alert. When life is easy, comfortable, convenient, who cares? Who bothers to become alert? When a friend dies, there is a possibility. When your woman leaves you alone -- those dark nights, you are lonely. You have loved that woman so much and you have staked all, and then suddenly one day she is gone. Crying in your loneliness, those are the occasions when, if you use them, you can become aware. The arrow is hurting: it can be used. The pain is not to make you miserable, the pain is to make you more aware! And when you are aware, misery disappears.